#463 – Remodelling Your Passion

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Image courtesy of Nixxphotography/ FreeDigitalPhotos.net 

“She reasoned that an unfulfilled passion was burdensome, and that one must know how to leave it behind in order to let another passion take its place.”  

As soon as I read that passage about Madame Merleau, a character in Hélène Grémillon’s novel, The Confidant, I knew that it would make a perfect starter for a blog post, and perhaps even a mantra, of sorts.

An important skill to develop in order to live well with a chronic illness is flexibility. Not only in the way you do things, but also in way you honour your passions. Your body may not work as well as it did pre-illness, which may mean bidding adieu to a passion. Or it could mean letting another passion take its place. Why not pretend that you are back in grade one. There on your desk, are several brand new bricks of Plasticine. Ooooo, you could hardly wait to begin creating with them. Do you remember the smell? And those delicious colours that were not yet all mixed together? More importantly, do you remember what you did when something you formed didn’t turn out the way you wanted? No recriminations; you pulled it apart and began again. When your creation was done, it may not have been perfect, but it was done to the best of your abilities.

Are you able to apply the Plasticine Principle to your passion – reforming it so that it is pleasing to the eye, and to your heart, where passion grows? (In my previous post, Pfizer’s First RA Blogger Summit – Feeding Body and Mind, I told you about Seamus Mullen, a chef who is passionate about cooking; RA has pushed him into reshaping how he cooks, so that he is able to continue doing what feeds his soul, and his patrons.)

Or if it’s not possible to modify your passion, are you able to allow another passion to take shape, even if it’s not executed perfectly?

Flexibility in thinking allows you to move beyond the stuck state of “I can’t follow my passion, therefore my life is over,”  and move into a more resourceful, productive and enlivening state.

If you find you’re swirling around in a stuck state, you would benefit from learning and regularly using stress undressing techniques. Not only do they help you release your negative thoughts and feelings, but they also increase your resilience, allowing you to weather the flare-ups and other negative events that occur in life. Take the fire out of your joints and put it into a passion!

If you’re interested in learning more, please contact me for a no-obligation chat, either by email, or by calling 604-507-9970.

2 Comments to “#463 – Remodelling Your Passion”

  1. What you are stating here: “Flexibility – Not only in the way you do things, but also in way you honour your passions” < – is so important for building up one's resiliency and ability to enjoy life, Marianna.

    Inevitably, in life, either the environment around us changes or we change and our ability to adapt and creatively see other options or ways of being/doing enables us to not only survive but thrive.

    Alvin Toffler noted that "Future shock is the shattering stress and disorientation that we induce in individuals by subjecting them to too much change in too short a time." Aside from how we may change personally over time [for the good or the worse], our lives are rapidly changing due to all the technological advances around us… employing various anti-stress methods is a powerful way to fortify ourselves to not only cope with but to embrace change.

    • Dorlee,
      I’m a big fan of Alvin Toffler – thanks for adding his quote.

      As you say, tools and techniques are crucial, if we want to roll with the increasing speed of change. Gaining perspective over what we can and can’t do – priceless!

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